I'm a huge polyshipper who hates love triangles and loves resolving them by either removing the het entirely or OT3ing based on what's compatible/appealing. But I think the thing is that saying how any love triangle is "best resolved" in a way that seems to universalize it for everyone consuming the canon, is kind of wanky. Like my really wonderful poly ot3 may be someone else's not3, and it is a matter of preference, not a matter of one of us being better or worse at shipping than the other.
Re: wank containment area
I'm a huge polyshipper who hates love triangles and loves resolving them by either removing the het entirely or OT3ing based on what's compatible/appealing. But I think the thing is that saying how any love triangle is "best resolved" in a way that seems to universalize it for everyone consuming the canon, is kind of wanky. Like my really wonderful poly ot3 may be someone else's not3, and it is a matter of preference, not a matter of one of us being better or worse at shipping than the other.