I mean I guess it isn't that wild, but some true shipping nonsense nonetheless- so I was in a historical fandom, and talking about a ship involving an upper class woman in her thirties and a working class 22yr old domestic abuse victim, which, sure, that's a power imbalance, I'm not pretending otherwise. But when you're stanning a straightforward het marriage in that setting, with it's gender politics.... you probably shouldn't be up on your high horse about power imbalances, of all things.