(just to be clear with the last paragraph i understand that a lot of nonbinary people who don't consider themselves women at all use she/her pronouns, it's complicated! It just feels... More fitting and less disrespectful I guess to consider gems who use she/her pronouns like the SU ones as under the f/f umbrella, as opposed to gems who use a variety of pronouns and appellations in an intentionally genderless way like the Houseki no Kuni gems.