Lol yeah, almost all of the reasons I see people call random male character a "he/him lesbian" and their m/f ship involving him is actually f/f now is because he's "too good" to be a man or something. What? Just admit you like one dude character or het ship, it's fine.

Ngl that stuff used to get to me, I know it's mostly pushed by young people who found their identity online but sometimes it makes me feel like I'm not "really" gay because I don't do xyz