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(Anonymous) 2018-08-07 11:40 am (UTC)(link)Formal, consensual BDSM leaves me cold. I want the power difference to be actual power (within the setting of the fic) and the sub to be aware of their lack of choice in the matter, to struggle with it/against it to some extent, and be actually experiencing real subjugation along with the sexy spanking/collars/object insertion/etc.
Which sounds fucked up but as a kink I LOVE IT and there's so much of this kind of thing around in fandom, but not a lot of it is f/f to my eternal dismay.
Re: KINKTOMATO
(Anonymous) 2018-08-07 05:25 pm (UTC)(link)You might like the webtoon Moonlight Garden? It's got that kind of setting, though I don't really think any of the reoccurring couples would really scratch the itch you described.
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(Anonymous) 2018-08-08 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)We have matching ids here, nonny. Hot damn.
I can only reliably find this in slavefic, though, which is great, but sometimes not quite what I want.
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(Anonymous) 2018-08-07 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)kinks I love in m/m fic that I wish I saw more commonly in f/f:
-anal + size kink
-comeplay (esp. with women you have potential for SO MUCH MORE fluid and messiness!)
-roughness, manhandling, size difference, physicality in general; not knocking emotions here but so much f/f is so let's-talk-about-our-feelings and even the kinky porn rarely has anyone being tossed around... which tbf may be a consequence of lack of big/strong women in a lot of canons but still...
-omegaverse with dicks... give the female alphas knottable hyena clits or smth if you are absolutely against women having sexi alpha dicks, but all this bs I see on ffa about ~ooh I want woman alphas to be Normal AFABs except with Strong Grabby Vaginas to Grab The Penis~ is SO not what I want from women in omegaverse
-oh THAT reminds me of something I really wish I saw more of in f/f: breeding kink. not necessarily actual impregnation, but one person fucking the other one and them both fantasizing about getting pregnant.
-I feel like I don't see as much desperation in f/f porn as I do in m/m? like in the sense of "I am so horny we need to fuck rn". weirddyke's supergirl spitbaby AU (omegaverse) made me rly happy because of how much kara and lena wanted to fuck in it.
-that being said I would love more f/f sex pollen/Bad Guys Made Them Do It/etc. types of dubcon too
-pervy sex slave fic where the owner just wants to fuck all the time and the slave is like "uwu *cries* "
-formalized D/s where the dom is referred to as a "dom" NOT a "domme" and/or has their sub call them "master" not "mistress"
-...honestly I wish there was more kinking on gender roles in f/f, u know how people like to whine about how slash shippers make one guy taller and stronger, and all that fic kinking on the one partner being small and hyperfeminine and the other one being buff and masc? I want MORE of that trashy stuff for f/f. it's hot.
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(Anonymous) 2018-08-07 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)YOU AND ME BOTH.
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(Anonymous) 2018-08-09 12:06 am (UTC)(link)I also really like big strong dom butches manhandling delicate femmes who like it at the same time they're intimidated as hell (and like that too).
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(Anonymous) 2018-08-08 12:19 am (UTC)(link)oh... and kinking on strength/muscles/bigness. whether it's a bottom/sub kinking on her top/dom's size & strength or a top/dom kinking on her physically powerful bottom/sub giving herself over, I feel like I NEVER see that in f/f and I so wish I did
Re: KINKTOMATO
(Anonymous) 2018-08-09 12:24 am (UTC)(link)-I feel like I don't see as much desperation in f/f porn as I do in m/m? like in the sense of "I am so horny we need to fuck rn".
-that being said I would love more f/f sex pollen/Bad Guys Made Them Do It/etc. types of dubcon too
HELL yes. And there are plenty of female characters who might be small but are superstrong! Buffy and Faith could have house-destroying sex, I'm just saying.
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(Anonymous) 2018-08-09 07:27 pm (UTC)(link)Personally my kink is to really xeno up those gender roles a bit--a large clitoris looks a lot like a tiny uncut penis, but one of the main differences is the labia minora running along the bottom of the shaft. So a female alpha dick would look pretty dicklike, but might have ruffles? I imagine they'd be on the small size compared to massive alpha dong erections (since the erection would stretch them out, too) but I am really attached to the idea of this recognizably AFAB cock filling you with buckets of alpha cum.
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(Anonymous) 2018-08-09 07:30 pm (UTC)(link)