(frozen comment) Re: wank containment area

(Anonymous) 2018-08-14 04:39 am (UTC)(link)
but they've identified themselves with a community that attracts a LOT of homophobes

By... describing their sexual orientation as what it is?

This is why I would qualify this as sexuality wank and why I wish it wasn't a thing here. It's one thing to take issue with aspects of the tumblr asexual community or whatever else, it's another thing to say that people are identifying themselves as homophobic by being open about their identity and not self-flagellating every time they mention it or something.

(frozen comment) Re: wank containment area

(Anonymous) 2018-08-14 04:42 am (UTC)(link)
the identity as it is has been irrecoverably ruined and tainted

ntm that the guy who started the asexual community david jay is a homophobe who's gone on about how gay people need to be taught to have "nonsexual intimacy"

(frozen comment) Re: wank containment area

(Anonymous) 2018-08-14 04:43 am (UTC)(link)
the rules say sexuality wank is okay in the wank thread and only the wank thread so... maybe just block the wank thread if you don't want to see it?