Re: wank containment area

(Anonymous) 2018-11-06 03:45 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, in general I hate the conflation of queerness with coolness or morality. Like, something's gay if you like it, deciding that random young person/friend group traits are Gay Culture And You Do This If You're Gay...

Re: wank containment area

(Anonymous) 2018-11-06 09:29 am (UTC)(link)
Lol yeah, almost all of the reasons I see people call random male character a "he/him lesbian" and their m/f ship involving him is actually f/f now is because he's "too good" to be a man or something. What? Just admit you like one dude character or het ship, it's fine.

Ngl that stuff used to get to me, I know it's mostly pushed by young people who found their identity online but sometimes it makes me feel like I'm not "really" gay because I don't do xyz